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BY  Barsha Oct 22, 2025

I know what’s going on inside that pretty head of yours. You are probably thinking how many hookups I've had during my travels - especially since I am here to talk about travel hookups!  TBH, a few times for sure - not too many times, but definitely a few times. I mean, I had no idea about how the hookup culture worked during vacations - until I tried it out a few times. And now? Well, while the adrenaline is certainly thrilling, it does come with some major risks.  And while I’m nobody to stop you, it’s important that I help you out with my comprehensive list of dangers associated with travel hookups. Once you are aware, you will be safe while having ‘fun’ on vacation. Stay tuned. What Are The Dangers Of Hooking Up When You Travel? Romantic relationships on the road can be a great way to experience a foreign culture intimately, but at the same time, navigating the dating scene abroad can be a minefield.  Hooking up while traveling is an experience many actively strive for; as of 2025, 58 percent of travelers have embarked on a vacation romance, according to a recent TripAdvisor survey. Hookup culture not only accepts but actively encourages casual sex, including activities like one-night stands, without necessarily including bonding or emotional intimacy.  The term “hookup” has a broad scope because it can indicate any form of sexual activity between partners, including kissing. One can expect the dangers of hookup culture to be amplified when the partners in question have gone all the way at least once, especially regarding the following point.  In this context, let’s look at the primary dangers of travel hookups: Misaligned expectations  The risks of overindulging in alcohol The dangers of hooking up are relative  About good old-fashioned regret  The big issue of safety. 1. Misaligned Expectations: The question of whether it’s acceptable or even desirable to hook up with someone while traveling is very complicated. It first depends on the object of the hookup: a local or a fellow traveler? It seems far less complex when the person is also traveling and in a similar situation to you.  Given the significant financial gap and ensuing power imbalance between tourists and locals in destinations like third-world countries, there’s no shortage of potential problems. The traveler might see it as a fling, and the local – as real love, finally. Streams of messages over different online apps will follow the interaction, which can get awkward and, ultimately, one person could decide to block the other and move on.  2. The Risks Of Overindulging In Alcohol: It’s a fine line between lowering inhibitions and becoming too intoxicated to make smart decisions about what you do or don’t want to engage in. Overindulging in alcohol makes you more vulnerable to assault and theft, not to mention risking alcohol poisoning and ruining your entire vacation. 3. Relative Dangers Of Hooking Up: That only begins to scratch the surface of the dangers faced by women. Trust your intuition if a situation feels wrong or unsafe. Don’t assume you’re safer leaving a bar in a foreign country with someone you just met than you would be back home.  The sometimes misleading sense of security you feel while on vacation can make you vulnerable. Other vacationers won’t necessarily have your best interests at heart. Safe sex is about more than wearing a condom; it’s about not ending up on the news as a cautionary tale.  4. About Good Old-Fashioned Regret:  An online survey of 1,468 college students found that more than 27% felt embarrassed about a recent hookup, just under a quarter reported emotional difficulties, a fifth felt a loss of respect, and a tenth shared they had problems with their long-term partner.  78% of women and 72% of men who had casual sex reported experiencing regret thereafter, according to a Canadian survey of 200 undergraduate students.  5. The BIG Issue Of Safety: Obviously, this is perhaps the most important issue associated with travel hookups. When you reside somewhere unfamiliar, you become more open and vulnerable to any kind of sexual assault.  Both drug use and alcohol are common parts of travel, and both can sufficiently increase risks when you are traveling. Why? Well, it can impair your judgement, increasing risks in the process. As per travel data on Satista, sexual violence in international trips is typically perpetrated by strangers or even recent acquaintances.  Of course, this is correct, considering you won’t have your usual security network of family and friends who can interfere or even help in case of something dangerous. Moreover, in a foreign land, you might not be familiar with social cues or even local emergency support.  How To Minimize Risks Associated With Travel Hookups? Now that I’ve highlighted the major risks associated with travel hookups, I have a few tricks up my sleeve to minimize the dangers associated with travel hookups: Always meet in Public! If you are meeting someone from a dating or hookup app for the first time, and that too while you are traveling, then it's best to meet them in a public spot. And best to avoid drinking - what if they spike your drink? But if you still want to be a little tipsy, drink a little, depending on your tolerance, and then go meet someone new.  Always confide in someone about your plans. So what are they miles away from you? My best friend lives on another continent, but I always message her - she knows what to do if she doesn’t hear from me every few hours. Also, I always share my live location with her - just to be extra safe.  While you can do a thousand other things, it is best to trust your gut. If something feels off, then trust your instincts and leave. You don’t need to hook up with someone who doesn’t make you feel comfortable at the onset. And if you are meeting in public, then leaving is always an easy option. Lastly, never disclose personal information. This basically means don’t tell your tour ‘date’ which hotel you are residing in, what your plans are for the next few days, and stuff like that. This is because once you do leave, considering something feels off, they might just follow you and make it unsafe for you.  The Dos Of Hooking Up When Traveling: It’s not about avoiding hookups while traveling, but approaching them the right way. To make sure you don’t regret the experience, don’t lower your standards. Always be selective and don’t hook up with people in your tour group or who are staying at your hotel – it will prevent the awkwardness of running into them after a disappointing experience.  Follow the golden rule: come and leave with friends and look out for each other and, ideally, other travelers. Being an active bystander will make sure no one looks back on situations abroad with regret. 

BY  Sibashree Jan 9, 2026

“Ma, will you miss me when I am in the camps and do the trek with my school friends?” I was a little surprised, as every mom would be when a 13-year-old these days says such emotional things! I looked at her and then straight at her rucksack and the entire mess around it.  She read my expression. “Ma, I don’t know what to pack for camping. My class teacher gave us a list, and I cannot find it now.”  There is no point in telling her that she cannot be so careless with plans of camping and trekking in her mind. I texted her teacher, and until she replied, I got started with the basics.  My years of experience as a traveler and travel writer were waiting for this day of glory 😉! Nevertheless, sometimes, being a mother, you have to do things! Now, a whole week of camping may sound amazing. Fresh air, quiet mornings, that forest smell that sticks to everything. Honestly, it’s like hitting the reset button.  Then reality hits. Seven days out there? What even do you bring?You want fun, not a trip full of “why did I leave that jacket at home?” or “Ugh, no power again.”So, what actually goes in your bag without turning it into a nightmare? Here are some practical tips you need to remember.  What To Pack For Camping? Things You Need To Carry For Survival  You need a good shelter, food that keeps you going, and some survival tools when you are camping. Also, keep some books or board games handy to spend those long evenings.  1. Shelter And Sleep Essentials A solid tent is a must. Rain, wind, surprise weather! Your tent better not bail on you. Some tents are super roomy but heavy. Your shoulders will hate you. If you’re hiking far, weight matters more than space. I had to spend 30 minutes convincing my daughter about the same and had to make her talk to my fellow trekker, whom she, of course, trusts more than me.  Now, it’s about the sleeping bag. You have to consider the weather and ground conditions when choosing the right one.  If the bag is made of synthetic material, it will help to manage wet weather. But, if you are choosing down bags, those will be more compressible and occupy less space. However, they will not forgive your wet conditions.  In addition, you have to carry sleeping pads. Sleep on the hard ground for two nights, and you will know why you need these sleeping pads.  Pillow, of course, is an optional choice. I made a makeshift pillow for my daughter by stuffing some old clothes in a bag.  2. Clothing Weather changes, and fast. Cold mornings. Hot afternoons. Damp nights. You get the idea. Layers that dry fast are your friend. Zip-off pants, light jackets, even a swimsuit, sound extra, I know. But there’s that one river crossing or random rainstorm where you’ll be glad.  Socks. Bring more than you think. Blisters ruin everything. Shoes matter too. Waterproof boots, yes. But a lighter pair for hanging around camp? Total win. 3. Food Freeze-dried meals are easy, lightweight, and actually tasty now. Add fruit, nuts, or some cooked food if you can. I got my daughter a few protein bars. I made those at home using roasted sesame seeds, jaggery, and peanuts.  Also, I stir-fried some boiled peas with salt and some seasoning and packed them in a zipper pack. These munchies really help, and unlike the ready-made snacks in the market, these don’t make you feel dehydrated.  Breakfast? Keep it simple. Oatmeal, instant coffee, snack bars. Done.Lunch is usually wraps, nut butter, and trail mix. Easy stuff. Dinner? One-pot meals are gold. Less cleanup, less stress. Don’t forget small things like oil, salt, or spices. Little stuff goes a long way.  Water. Super important. Bring enough. Know where to refill. Hiking miles because you misjudged water? No thanks. 4. Tools And Survival Necessities A good knife, a small multi-tool, and a headlamp with extra batteries, and you’ll use these more than half the fancy gadgets you’re tempted by. Use maps or a compass, even if you have a phone. Phones die. Signal disappears. Happens. Electronics? Charging them can be annoying. Also, portable energy solutions can save your sanity at some point, trust me. 5. Safety Essentials Hygiene. Boring, but trust me! After day three, you’ll care. Soap, toothbrush, wipes, quick-dry towel. Sunscreen and bug spray! You cannot forget any of these essentials.  You will also need a first-aid kit. Blisters, cuts, aches, all of it! Bring painkillers, allergy meds, and anything personal you need.  Hand sanitizer is more than just about germs. Whistle or signal tool? It might feel extra, but one day you’ll be glad you have it. 6. Entertainment Evenings can be long. Books, journals, cards, and small instruments will help you to pass the time. Hammocks are great for some chill instantly. You will love staring at trees or taking photos when relaxing in a hammock.  Also, you can bring camp chairs. Sometimes, comfort wins over minimalism, especially when you are doing back-to-back camping or trekking.  What To Pack For Camping? Don’t Feel Overwhelmed  Are you camping for the first time, and that too for seven days? The packing procedure can get a bit overwhelming.  It’s okay. However, making a list of essentials or talking to your tour operator will help. Also, you can reach out to anyone in your camping group. When traveling solo, you can post your queries in Facebook travel groups.  Still, it all starts with getting a good quality tent, and you have to learn how to set it up properly. Also, carry layered clothes as temperatures change and weather conditions can change dramatically after sundown, or there can be sudden turns of events.  Furthermore, you will need lights and lightsaver tools, and you must keep your meals simple.  Moreover, you have to keep some things or aspects spontaneous while camping. Everything will not happen as planned. You may have to collect a dead branch and wash it to use in cooking if you have left the spatula at home! Things like these will happen, and how you overcome them is the real fun of camping. Read Also: Must-See Attractions While Camping on Everest Base Camp Trek Why Solo Adventures Can Be Life-Changing The Best Great Barrier Island Camping Tips

BY  Sibashree Oct 7, 2025

I remember my first quiet Sunday in Paris—it caught me off guard. The whole city just… slowed down. No horns, no rush, just this calm hum underneath everything. You could actually hear the church bells bouncing off the empty streets.  It will feel a bit strange at first. You will feel like you woke up before the world did. Some of the shops will be shut, some light spilling over the rooftops, and the air will smell like freshly baked bread.  By mid-morning, the city will wake up again, but this time it will be slow. The shops will open, and you will notice people moving around, communicating with others. Things will seem slow and cozy, and you will see how these people enjoy life.  Same with Rue Mouffetard—music from nowhere, old ladies arguing over fruit, a kid tugging at his mom’s sleeve. Even Batignolles, tucked away from the usual crowd, hums with its own little rhythm.  There are various things to do on Sunday in Paris, as the major attractions might be closed. Some of the major markets and shops will not open. So, it is important that you plan something nice and simple and just enjoy life in Paris for a day. Take things slow.  Increasingly, travelers are planning their itineraries around this day of calm discovery, aided by thoughtfully designed all inclusive holidays to Paris that include cultural experiences off the beaten path, offering a deeper glimpse into authentic Parisian life. Things To Do On Sunday In Paris Lately, people have caught on to this slower Paris. Paris vacation packages even have it built in now—whole days with no schedule, just “see what happens.” I used one once, through Travelodeal maybe, and their whole pitch was to live like a local.  That sounded like marketing fluff, but honestly, they weren’t wrong. They sent me to buy bread from a tiny boulangerie, told me to sit under the sycamores at Place des Vosges, and just watch people. Simple. Beautiful. You end up seeing a side of Paris that doesn’t try to impress you—it just is. 1. Market Mornings And Fresh Finds If you can get yourself out early (I barely managed), the markets are wild in the best way. Marché Bastille is my favorite. It’s messy, loud, alive.  You will hear people arguing about prices, vendors shouting, and someone playing accordion like he is auditioning for a movie. Piles of tomatoes, a bunch of scarves, the smell of bread, everything will make you feel alive. 2. Stillness In The Streets Then everything quiets down again. Around late morning, it’s like the city decides to take a nap. Montmartre, Le Marais—they turn soft and slow. Shutters half-closed, sunlight sliding across cobblestones, the occasional bike bell echoing through an alley.  You pass an artist sketching, someone leaning on a balcony, a couple holding hands, as if time had stopped for them. It’s cinematic, honestly. On a Sunday, walking across the Seine feels like walking through someone’s dream. 3. Long Lunches, Parisian-Style Now, if there’s one thing Parisians take seriously, it’s Sunday lunch. You can’t rush it. Even if you tried, they’d probably ignore you until you relaxed.  Tables fill with families, old friends, strangers turned companions. You order steak-frites or roast chicken, maybe onion soup if you’re lucky. Bread everywhere, wine always flowing.  No one looks at their watch. Meals last hours—literally. You talk, eat, sip, pause, talk again. And dessert? You don’t skip it. Tarte Tatin, if you can find it. Or cheese. Always cheese. 4. Enjoy High Tea Enjoying a high tea in Paris is one of the best things to do on a Sunday in Paris. Most of the big hotels also offer afternoon tea even on public holidays. The Ritz Paris offers afternoon tea, which creates a sense of occasion.  Afternoon tea at Le Meurice is something you should experience at least once in your lifetime. However, you will have to book this in advance as this is quite popular. Moreover, you can try afternoon tea at Le Bristol.  This is kind of a hidden gem, and not as popular as its competitors. It is less crowded and you will be able to visit it on public holidays as well. There is no reason to be crowded, but you have to book it in advance.  5. Parks And Picnics In Full Bloom If the weather is sunny and pleasant, you need to get out. There is no point staying indoors. Visit one of the parks like Parc Monceau, Jardin du Luxembourg, and Buttes-Chaumont.  Kids enjoy the park; they chase pigeons. You will notice musicians singing by the fountains, and older couples sitting peacefully, enjoying the surroundings. All you will need is a bottle of wine, a baguette, and some cheese. Just sit around and watch life unfold around you. 6. Go Shopping Among so many things to do on Sunday in Paris, there is no way to miss out on shopping. However, make sure there are no big holidays, or the stores will be closed. The designer shops and the big brands generally keep their store open on Sundays. However, do not estimate the flea shops. The St. Ouen flea market is less crowded, and you will be able to shop easily there, and getting there is also not very difficult. It is a small site, and you will be able to browse through stuff easily, and the variety you get here is unmatched. Where Everyday Life Becomes The Highlight By evening, you realize how little you’ve done. There are so many things to do on Sunday in Paris. And somehow, that’s the magic.  Paris doesn’t need your checklist—it just wants you to slow down long enough to notice it. The soft chatter, the smell of bread, the light hitting the Seine—it all feels like a secret only you found. Walking home that night, I remember thinking: nothing spectacular happened. No grand event, no story to brag about. Yet it felt like one of those rare days you actually lived instead of rushed through. That’s a Parisian Sunday for you. Quiet. Ordinary. And absolutely unforgettable.